Jo Ngai Yee Shan Visits Child Brides in Cambodia

Plan International Hong Kong’s Because I am a Girl ambassador Jo Ngai Yee Shan visited some girls affected by child marriage in Cambodia in 2016.

Arunny: Sacrificing Herself for Brother’s Education

Living in a remote village in the northeast part of Cambodia, Arunny (pseudonym) had to quit school and get married when she was 16, bearing the burden of taking care of her family at a young age.
Arunny enjoys school life. However, because of poverty, she had no choice but to sacrifice herself. In her village, it is a common practice for the husband to move to his bride’s house after marriage. “My husband can help with the farm work and make money. This allows my brother to continue his study,” Arunny said in tears.
Arunny sacrificed her future in order to let her brother attend school. Jo was deeply touched to tears by Arunny’s selflessness, ‘Girls in developing countries never take education for granted. They treasure the opportunity to go to school and understand that education is the only way to change their fate. Yet because of poverty, they are forced to marry at a young age, sacrificing their future for their family’s better livelihood. Living in prosperous Hong Kong, our life is incomparable with theirs.’

Arunny had no choice but to get married early. Jo is very sad about her experience.

Life is tough; however, Arunny tries her best to help others. From Monday to Friday, Arunny works as a volunteer teacher in a kindergarten supported by Plan International. She brings her daughter to work and teaches children the local language. Arunny said,

If I had a choice, I wouldn’t have got married that early. In the future, I will try my best to ensure my daughter can go to school and won’t get married early. I hope she can become a doctor and help the community.

Arunny works as a volunteer teacher in a kindergarten supported by Plan International.

Sokha： Got Married Early and Suffered a Miscarriage

Sokha (pseudonym) lives in the border area between Cambodia and Vietnam. She is now 18 years old but only spent two years in school.

Jo visited Sokha in the border area of Cambodia.

Sokha’s school was far away. To go to school, she had to walk for hours along rugged and muddy road. Her family is very poor and is heavily in debt. Sometimes they don’t even have enough food to eat. When Sokha was 16 years old, she had to drop out of school and get married, so she and her husband could farm together and make money to help the family.

Sokha thought marriage could bring hope, however, life got even harder. She gets up at 7 in the morning every day to deal with the endless work: cooking, fetching water, farming, and house work… She could not enjoy any leisure time even during her pregnancy. Sadly the pregnancy ended in miscarriage at six months due to overworking and the lack of maternal care.
Sokha regrets her decision to get married early,

I used to dream of becoming a nurse… Now I just hope my sister can continue her study and won’t get married early.

Life is hard for Sokha and her husband. They are worried about the future.

Jo believes that every child should have the right to receive education, thus she is sorry to learn that girls are forced to drop out of school because of early marriage, ‘I was deeply moved when I saw children learning with big smiles on their face and enjoying the lesson in classroom. It is a pity to see girls being forced to get married early due to poverty, losing their right to education, if not becoming teenage mothers.’

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*The images, taken in or before 2016, reflect our lasting work impact in communities but is not a current representation of the community.